https://wisp.smoke-stack.com/Recent content on WispHugoen-usSat, 29 Aug 2026 00:00:00 +0000https://wisp.smoke-stack.com/posts/what-a-1-1-is-for/Sat, 29 Aug 2026 00:00:00 +0000https://wisp.smoke-stack.com/posts/what-a-1-1-is-for/<p>Most 1:1s open the same way. <em>&ldquo;So — where are we on things?&rdquo;</em> And then fifteen minutes of reconstruction: what moved, what didn&rsquo;t, what somebody was waiting on and never said. By the time both people have the same picture, half the meeting is gone and the hard conversation is squeezed into what&rsquo;s left.</p> <p>The reconstruction is not the meeting. It is the tax you pay before the meeting can start.</p>